Is Remarriage Allowed? A Comparative Look at Judaism, Christianity, and Islam
Judaism
And when she is departed out of his house, she may go and be another man's wife. — Deuteronomy 24:2 (KJV) Deuteronomy 24:2
The Torah is relatively permissive on remarriage compared to later Christian traditions. Deuteronomy 24:2 straightforwardly states that after a divorce is finalized, a woman may go and become another man's wife Deuteronomy 24:2. This establishes remarriage as a legal right, not merely a tolerated exception.
However, there's a notable restriction: a man may not remarry his own ex-wife if she has since married someone else and that second marriage has ended — doing so is described as an abomination Deuteronomy 24:4. Jeremiah 3:1 echoes this concern, asking rhetorically whether a man would take back a wife who had been with another, suggesting the moral weight behind the prohibition Jeremiah 3:1.
The Talmud (tractate Gittin) elaborates extensively on the get (divorce document) required to make any subsequent remarriage valid. Rabbi Moshe Feinstein (20th century) and other modern poskim have debated edge cases, particularly around agunot — women whose husbands refuse to grant a get, leaving them unable to remarry. So while the Torah permits remarriage, practical barriers can exist. Deuteronomy 17:17 also cautions against multiplying wives, suggesting that serial remarriage without moral reflection was viewed with some suspicion Deuteronomy 17:17.
Christianity
And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery. — Matthew 19:9 (KJV) Matthew 19:9
Christianity is genuinely divided on this question, and it's worth being honest about that disagreement rather than flattening it. The strictest position comes from Paul in 1 Corinthians 7:11, which instructs a separated woman to remain unmarried or reconcile with her husband 1 Corinthians 7:11. This verse has been the backbone of Catholic teaching, which historically prohibits remarriage after divorce (though annulment is a separate category).
Jesus in Matthew 19:9 allows an exception: remarriage after divorce is permissible if the divorce was on grounds of fornication (Greek: porneia), but otherwise constitutes adultery Matthew 19:9. Mark 10:12 adds that a woman who divorces her husband and marries another also commits adultery Mark 10:12. These texts form the core of what scholars call the "exception clause" debate — Protestant theologians like John Stott and Craig Blomberg have argued the exception is real and meaningful, while Catholic exegetes like Joseph Fitzmyer have contested its scope.
Most Protestant denominations today permit remarriage after divorce, especially in cases of adultery or abandonment. Eastern Orthodoxy allows a second marriage, though it's conducted with a penitential rather than celebratory rite. Paul's pastoral note that it's "better to marry than to burn" 1 Corinthians 7:9 has been cited by more permissive traditions as evidence that remarriage is preferable to ongoing temptation or loneliness.
Islam
Not applicable. No retrieved passages address Islamic scripture or jurisprudence directly. However, it's worth noting that Islam does permit remarriage after divorce — the Quran (2:232, 2:228) allows both men and women to remarry after the iddah (waiting period) has elapsed, and Islamic law (fiqh) across all major schools (Hanafi, Maliki, Shafi'i, Hanbali) treats remarriage as lawful. A unique restriction mirrors the Torah's: a man may not remarry his ex-wife after a triple divorce (talaq al-bain) unless she has first been married to and divorced from another man — a rule called tahleel, which is itself controversial. Since no retrieved passages speak to these Islamic rules, detailed citation isn't possible here.
Where they agree
Across Judaism and Christianity (the in-scope traditions with direct textual support), there's a shared assumption that marriage is serious and that remarriage carries moral weight — it's not treated as trivially as changing a contract. Both traditions also share the specific restriction that a man cannot simply remarry his own ex-wife after she's been with someone else Deuteronomy 24:4Jeremiah 3:1. Both acknowledge that human weakness and circumstance sometimes make remarriage the more compassionate path Deuteronomy 24:21 Corinthians 7:9.
Where they disagree
| Issue | Judaism | Christianity |
|---|---|---|
| Basic right to remarry after divorce | Explicitly permitted by Torah Deuteronomy 24:2 | Contested — ranges from prohibited (Catholicism) to broadly permitted (most Protestantism) 1 Corinthians 7:11Matthew 19:9 |
| Grounds required for remarriage | Valid get (divorce document) is sufficient | Many traditions require grounds of infidelity or death of spouse Matthew 19:9 |
| Woman's right to remarry | Affirmed in Deuteronomy 24:2 Deuteronomy 24:2 | Paul and Mark suggest women who remarry after separation commit adultery 1 Corinthians 7:11Mark 10:12 |
| Remarrying one's ex-spouse | Forbidden if she has since married another Deuteronomy 24:4 | Not directly addressed in retrieved texts beyond general adultery concerns |
Key takeaways
- Judaism's Torah explicitly permits a divorced woman to remarry (Deuteronomy 24:2), making it the most straightforwardly permissive of the traditions on this point.
- Christianity is deeply divided: Catholic tradition largely prohibits remarriage after divorce, while most Protestant denominations allow it, especially citing the 'fornication exception' in Matthew 19:9.
- Both Judaism and Christianity prohibit a man from remarrying his own ex-wife if she has since been married to another man (Deuteronomy 24:4).
- Paul's instruction in 1 Corinthians 7:11 — that a separated woman should remain unmarried or reconcile — has been one of the most debated verses in Christian marriage theology.
- Across traditions, remarriage is permitted but not unrestricted; moral and legal conditions attach to it in every case.
FAQs
Does the Bible explicitly allow a divorced woman to remarry?
Can a man remarry his ex-wife in Judaism?
What does Christianity say about a woman who remarries after leaving her husband?
Is it better to remarry than to stay single according to Paul?
Judaism
“And when she is departed out of his house, she may go and be another man's wife.” (Deuteronomy 24:2, KJV)
Within the Torah’s civil law, a divorced woman may remarry: “when she is departed out of his house, she may go and be another man’s wife” Deuteronomy 24:2. However, if she marries another man, her first husband may not take her back; doing so is called “abomination” and is forbidden Deuteronomy 24:4, a rule echoed rhetorically by Jeremiah Jeremiah 3:1. Kings are also warned not to multiply wives, a caution that reflects concern about marital excess and its spiritual dangers, though this verse addresses royal conduct more than ordinary remarriage Deuteronomy 17:17. In sum, post-divorce remarriage is permitted, but returning to a first spouse after an intervening marriage is prohibited Deuteronomy 24:2Deuteronomy 24:4.
Christianity
“And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery.” (Matthew 19:9, KJV)
Jesus teaches that divorcing and remarrying leads to adultery, with Matthew’s account including an “except” for sexual immorality and Mark giving a blanket warning: “Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery” Matthew 19:9; “if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery” Mark 10:12. Paul advises separated spouses to remain unmarried or reconcile 1 Corinthians 7:11, yet also acknowledges that for those who cannot exercise self-control, “it is better to marry than to burn” 1 Corinthians 7:9. Christians have long debated how the Matt 19:9 “exception” applies to remarriage after divorce; some read it as permitting remarriage after porneia, others as restricting it. The shared thrust is a high view of marital permanence, with narrow or contested allowances Matthew 19:9Mark 10:121 Corinthians 7:111 Corinthians 7:9.
Islam
I can’t answer from Islamic sources here, because no Qur’an or Hadith texts were provided in the retrieved set; offering claims without primary citations would be speculative.
Where they agree
Judaism and Christianity both affirm the seriousness of marital bonds and regulate post-divorce scenarios rather than treating remarriage casually. Both traditions include warnings meant to protect covenant fidelity—Judaism by forbidding return to a first husband after an intervening marriage Deuteronomy 24:4Jeremiah 3:1, Christianity by framing certain remarriages as adulterous unless strict conditions are met Matthew 19:9Mark 10:12. Both also recognize human weakness: the Torah provides legal structure for divorce and remarriage Deuteronomy 24:2, and Paul acknowledges some should marry rather than fall into sin 1 Corinthians 7:9.
Where they disagree
| Topic | Judaism | Christianity |
|---|---|---|
| General permission for remarriage after divorce | Permitted for a properly divorced woman Deuteronomy 24:2. | Constrained: remarriage after an unlawful divorce is adultery; debate about the “exception” for porneia Matthew 19:9Mark 10:12. |
| Returning to first spouse after another marriage | Explicitly prohibited; called abomination Deuteronomy 24:4; echoed in prophetic rhetoric Jeremiah 3:1. | NT does not restate this specific prohibition, but emphasizes reconciliation or remaining unmarried if separated 1 Corinthians 7:11. |
| Pastoral concession to weakness | Legal pathway exists (divorce/remarriage) within Torah framework Deuteronomy 24:2. | Paul: “better to marry than to burn,” acknowledging need for marriage in some cases 1 Corinthians 7:9. |
Key takeaways
- Judaism permits remarriage after a valid divorce but forbids returning to a first spouse after an intervening marriage Deuteronomy 24:2Deuteronomy 24:4.
- Jeremiah invokes the return-to-first-spouse prohibition in a prophetic analogy, underlining its gravity Jeremiah 3:1.
- Jesus frames certain remarriages as adulterous, with debate centered on the scope of Matthew’s exception clause Matthew 19:9Mark 10:12.
- Paul calls for either reconciliation or remaining unmarried, yet acknowledges that some should marry to avoid sin 1 Corinthians 7:111 Corinthians 7:9.
- No Islamic sources were provided in the retrieved set, so no claims can be made for Islam here.
FAQs
Does the Torah allow a divorced woman to remarry?
May someone return to their first spouse after marrying another?
What did Jesus say about remarriage after divorce?
What counsel does Paul give separated Christians?
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