Is Remarriage Allowed? A Comparative Look at Judaism, Christianity, and Islam

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TL;DR: All three Abrahamic faiths permit remarriage under certain conditions, but the rules differ significantly. Judaism's Torah explicitly allows a divorced woman to remarry Deuteronomy 24:2. Christianity is divided — some traditions permit remarriage only after a spouse's death or in cases of infidelity Matthew 19:9, while others are more permissive. Islam allows remarriage after divorce, though a specific waiting period and conditions apply. None of the traditions treat remarriage as entirely unrestricted, and each attaches moral weight to the circumstances surrounding it.

Judaism

And when she is departed out of his house, she may go and be another man's wife. — Deuteronomy 24:2 (KJV) Deuteronomy 24:2

The Torah is relatively permissive on remarriage compared to later Christian traditions. Deuteronomy 24:2 straightforwardly states that after a divorce is finalized, a woman may go and become another man's wife Deuteronomy 24:2. This establishes remarriage as a legal right, not merely a tolerated exception.

However, there's a notable restriction: a man may not remarry his own ex-wife if she has since married someone else and that second marriage has ended — doing so is described as an abomination Deuteronomy 24:4. Jeremiah 3:1 echoes this concern, asking rhetorically whether a man would take back a wife who had been with another, suggesting the moral weight behind the prohibition Jeremiah 3:1.

The Talmud (tractate Gittin) elaborates extensively on the get (divorce document) required to make any subsequent remarriage valid. Rabbi Moshe Feinstein (20th century) and other modern poskim have debated edge cases, particularly around agunot — women whose husbands refuse to grant a get, leaving them unable to remarry. So while the Torah permits remarriage, practical barriers can exist. Deuteronomy 17:17 also cautions against multiplying wives, suggesting that serial remarriage without moral reflection was viewed with some suspicion Deuteronomy 17:17.

Christianity

And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery. — Matthew 19:9 (KJV) Matthew 19:9

Christianity is genuinely divided on this question, and it's worth being honest about that disagreement rather than flattening it. The strictest position comes from Paul in 1 Corinthians 7:11, which instructs a separated woman to remain unmarried or reconcile with her husband 1 Corinthians 7:11. This verse has been the backbone of Catholic teaching, which historically prohibits remarriage after divorce (though annulment is a separate category).

Jesus in Matthew 19:9 allows an exception: remarriage after divorce is permissible if the divorce was on grounds of fornication (Greek: porneia), but otherwise constitutes adultery Matthew 19:9. Mark 10:12 adds that a woman who divorces her husband and marries another also commits adultery Mark 10:12. These texts form the core of what scholars call the "exception clause" debate — Protestant theologians like John Stott and Craig Blomberg have argued the exception is real and meaningful, while Catholic exegetes like Joseph Fitzmyer have contested its scope.

Most Protestant denominations today permit remarriage after divorce, especially in cases of adultery or abandonment. Eastern Orthodoxy allows a second marriage, though it's conducted with a penitential rather than celebratory rite. Paul's pastoral note that it's "better to marry than to burn" 1 Corinthians 7:9 has been cited by more permissive traditions as evidence that remarriage is preferable to ongoing temptation or loneliness.

Islam

Not applicable. No retrieved passages address Islamic scripture or jurisprudence directly. However, it's worth noting that Islam does permit remarriage after divorce — the Quran (2:232, 2:228) allows both men and women to remarry after the iddah (waiting period) has elapsed, and Islamic law (fiqh) across all major schools (Hanafi, Maliki, Shafi'i, Hanbali) treats remarriage as lawful. A unique restriction mirrors the Torah's: a man may not remarry his ex-wife after a triple divorce (talaq al-bain) unless she has first been married to and divorced from another man — a rule called tahleel, which is itself controversial. Since no retrieved passages speak to these Islamic rules, detailed citation isn't possible here.

Where they agree

Across Judaism and Christianity (the in-scope traditions with direct textual support), there's a shared assumption that marriage is serious and that remarriage carries moral weight — it's not treated as trivially as changing a contract. Both traditions also share the specific restriction that a man cannot simply remarry his own ex-wife after she's been with someone else Deuteronomy 24:4Jeremiah 3:1. Both acknowledge that human weakness and circumstance sometimes make remarriage the more compassionate path Deuteronomy 24:21 Corinthians 7:9.

Where they disagree

IssueJudaismChristianity
Basic right to remarry after divorceExplicitly permitted by Torah Deuteronomy 24:2Contested — ranges from prohibited (Catholicism) to broadly permitted (most Protestantism) 1 Corinthians 7:11Matthew 19:9
Grounds required for remarriageValid get (divorce document) is sufficientMany traditions require grounds of infidelity or death of spouse Matthew 19:9
Woman's right to remarryAffirmed in Deuteronomy 24:2 Deuteronomy 24:2Paul and Mark suggest women who remarry after separation commit adultery 1 Corinthians 7:11Mark 10:12
Remarrying one's ex-spouseForbidden if she has since married another Deuteronomy 24:4Not directly addressed in retrieved texts beyond general adultery concerns

Key takeaways

  • Judaism's Torah explicitly permits a divorced woman to remarry (Deuteronomy 24:2), making it the most straightforwardly permissive of the traditions on this point.
  • Christianity is deeply divided: Catholic tradition largely prohibits remarriage after divorce, while most Protestant denominations allow it, especially citing the 'fornication exception' in Matthew 19:9.
  • Both Judaism and Christianity prohibit a man from remarrying his own ex-wife if she has since been married to another man (Deuteronomy 24:4).
  • Paul's instruction in 1 Corinthians 7:11 — that a separated woman should remain unmarried or reconcile — has been one of the most debated verses in Christian marriage theology.
  • Across traditions, remarriage is permitted but not unrestricted; moral and legal conditions attach to it in every case.

FAQs

Does the Bible explicitly allow a divorced woman to remarry?
In the Old Testament, yes — Deuteronomy 24:2 states she may go and become another man's wife Deuteronomy 24:2. In the New Testament, it's more complicated: Paul instructs a separated woman to remain unmarried or reconcile 1 Corinthians 7:11, while Jesus allows remarriage in cases of fornication Matthew 19:9.
Can a man remarry his ex-wife in Judaism?
Not if she has since married someone else. Deuteronomy 24:4 explicitly calls this an abomination before the Lord Deuteronomy 24:4, and Jeremiah 3:1 uses this very scenario as a moral illustration Jeremiah 3:1.
What does Christianity say about a woman who remarries after leaving her husband?
Mark 10:12 states that if a woman puts away her husband and marries another, she commits adultery Mark 10:12. Paul similarly says she should remain unmarried or be reconciled 1 Corinthians 7:11. However, the Matthew 19:9 exception clause Matthew 19:9 has led many Protestant traditions to permit remarriage in specific circumstances.
Is it better to remarry than to stay single according to Paul?
Paul writes in 1 Corinthians 7:9 that 'it is better to marry than to burn' 1 Corinthians 7:9, which many interpreters read as a pastoral concession — remarriage or marriage is preferable to being consumed by desire.

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