Why Does God Allow Children to Suffer? A Comparative Religious View
Judaism
It is not in our power to explain the prosperity of the wicked or the suffering of the righteous. (Pirkei Avot 4:15)
Judaism has never offered a single, tidy answer to why innocent children suffer — and its greatest thinkers have insisted that intellectual honesty demands we resist easy answers. The Hebrew term for this problem is tzaddik ve-ra lo (the righteous who suffer), and it runs through the Tanakh from Genesis to the Psalms.
The Book of Job is the tradition's most sustained engagement with innocent suffering. Job's children are killed at the outset, and the entire drama turns on whether God owes an explanation. The rabbis of the Talmudic period (c. 200–500 CE) debated whether suffering is always disciplinary (yissurin shel ahavah, 'afflictions of love') or whether some suffering is simply beyond human comprehension. Rabbi Yannai, quoted in the Babylonian Talmud (Berakhot 7a), admitted: 'It is not in our power to explain the prosperity of the wicked or the suffering of the righteous.'
Medieval philosopher Maimonides (1138–1204) argued in Guide for the Perplexed (III:12) that most human suffering stems from human choices and the material nature of the world, not divine punishment — a view that partially shields children from any notion of deserved suffering. By contrast, Nachmanides (1194–1270) leaned more heavily on the idea that souls carry spiritual debts across lifetimes, though this kabbalistic view remains contested.
After the Holocaust, theologians like Eliezer Berkovits and Emil Fackenheim forced a reckoning: how could the murder of 1.5 million Jewish children be reconciled with a providential God? Berkovits' concept of hester panim ('the hiding of God's face') — drawn from Deuteronomy 31:17 — suggests God temporarily withdraws to preserve human freedom, even at catastrophic cost. This is not a comfortable answer, and Judaism largely resists pretending it is.
Christianity
But Jesus said, Suffer little children, and forbid them not, to come unto me: for of such is the kingdom of heaven. (Matthew 19:14)
Christian theology approaches child suffering through several overlapping frameworks: the fallen world, divine discipline, eschatological hope, and the mystery of providence. None of these fully 'solves' the problem, and honest theologians from Augustine to C.S. Lewis have said so.
First, the fallen-world argument: most mainstream Christian theology holds that suffering entered creation through human sin (Genesis 3), meaning children suffer not because God wills it directly but because they are born into a broken world. Paul's language in Romans 8 about 'the whole creation groaning' supports this reading.
Second, the disciplinary argument. The letter to the Hebrews offers a striking analogy: 'If ye endure chastening, God dealeth with you as with sons; for what son is he whom the father chasteneth not?' Hebrews 12:7 This frames suffering as potentially formative rather than punitive — though theologians like Jürgen Moltmann (b. 1926) have warned strongly against applying this to child suffering in ways that excuse injustice or abuse.
Third, and perhaps most pastorally significant, Jesus himself placed children at the center of the kingdom. In all three Synoptic Gospels he rebuked his disciples for keeping children away: 'Suffer the little children to come unto me, and forbid them not: for of such is the kingdom of God.' Mark 10:14Luke 18:16 This suggests children hold a privileged spiritual status, not a punished one.
Contemporary theologians like Alvin Plantinga (b. 1932) use the 'free will defense' to argue God permits suffering to preserve genuine human freedom, while John Hick (1922–2012) proposed 'soul-making theodicy' — the idea that a world without suffering couldn't produce moral depth. Critics, including Dostoevsky's Ivan Karamazov (a fictional but theologically serious voice), argue no eschatological reward justifies a single child's tear. Christianity holds the tension without fully resolving it.
Islam
And We will surely test you with something of fear and hunger and a loss of wealth and lives and fruits, but give good tidings to the patient. (Quran 2:155)
Islamic theology addresses child suffering primarily through the doctrines of qadar (divine decree), ibtila (divine testing), and divine mercy. The Quran repeatedly affirms that God does not wrong anyone — 'wa la yazlimu rabbuka ahadan' (Surah 18:49) — which means suffering, including that of children, must be understood within a framework of ultimate divine justice even when the immediate cause is opaque to humans.
On the specific fate of children who die young, there is near-consensus among classical scholars: children who die before the age of moral accountability (bulugh) go directly to paradise. Ibn al-Qayyim (1292–1350) devoted considerable attention to this in Ahkam Ahl al-Dhimma and related works, arguing the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) confirmed in hadith (Sahih Muslim) that children of believers — and according to some scholars, all children — are in paradise.
The broader question of why God permits suffering at all is addressed through the concept of ibtila: trials are a sign of God's love and a means of spiritual elevation. The Prophet is reported to have said: 'The greatest reward comes with the greatest trial. When Allah loves a people He tests them.' (Sunan Ibn Majah, graded hasan). This doesn't mean God causes child abuse or disease with indifference; Islamic ethics strongly obligates humans to relieve suffering wherever possible — the suffering is permitted, not celebrated.
Scholar and philosopher Ibn Rushd (Averroes, 1126–1198) and later Ash'arite theologians argued that God's wisdom (hikma) may include purposes humans cannot perceive. The Mu'tazilite school, by contrast, insisted God must have a rationally discernible reason for every act — a minority position today but historically significant. Contemporary scholar Hamza Yusuf (b. 1958) has emphasized that Islam asks believers to hold grief and trust simultaneously, without demanding God justify himself to human reason.
Where they agree
All three traditions share several core commitments on this painful question:
- God is not indifferent. None of the three traditions teaches that child suffering is meaningless or that God is unmoved by it. All three affirm divine compassion as a foundational attribute.
- Human responsibility matters. Judaism, Christianity, and Islam all insist that humans bear moral responsibility to alleviate suffering — the question of why God permits it doesn't remove the human obligation to fight it.
- Honest lament is legitimate. All three traditions contain robust traditions of crying out to God in anguish — the Psalms, Jesus's cry of dereliction (Mark 15:34), and the Quranic figure of Ayyub (Job) all model honest grief before God.
- Ultimate justice is deferred. Each tradition places final resolution beyond this life — in resurrection, the World to Come, or the Day of Judgment — meaning present suffering is not the final word Hebrews 12:7Mark 10:14.
Where they disagree
| Issue | Judaism | Christianity | Islam |
|---|---|---|---|
| Primary explanation for child suffering | Mystery; human freedom; hester panim (God's hidden face) | Fallen world; sin's consequences; possible disciplinary purpose Hebrews 12:7 | Divine test (ibtila); part of qadar (decree) |
| Fate of children who die young | Generally considered innocent; Olam Ha-Ba (World to Come) assumed, but details debated | Debated — some traditions (e.g., Calvinist) historically posited infant damnation; most modern traditions affirm salvation Mark 10:14 | Near-consensus: all children go to paradise before age of accountability |
| Role of human sin | Collective sin may affect community, but individual child suffering rarely attributed to child's own sin | Original sin affects all humanity, including children, though not as personal guilt in most traditions | No original sin doctrine; children are born sinless (fitra) |
| Willingness to challenge God | High — lament and argument with God is a respected tradition (Abraham, Job, Jeremiah) | Present but more constrained — Jesus models lament but also submission | Lament is permitted; direct argument with God less emphasized; submission (islam) is central |
Key takeaways
- All three Abrahamic traditions affirm God's compassion but none offers a fully satisfying rational explanation for why children specifically suffer.
- Christianity's Synoptic Gospels place children at the heart of the kingdom of God, suggesting their suffering is not a sign of divine rejection Mark 10:14.
- Islam holds near-consensus that children who die before moral accountability enter paradise, grounded in the doctrine of sinless fitra.
- Judaism is uniquely willing to frame the unanswered question itself as theologically honest — lament and argument with God are respected traditions, not failures of faith.
- Hebrews 12:7 frames suffering as potentially disciplinary, but modern theologians widely caution against applying this to child suffering in ways that excuse human injustice Hebrews 12:7.
FAQs
Does the Bible say children have a special place with God despite suffering?
Does Judaism have an answer to why innocent children suffer?
What happens in Islam to children who die young?
Is child suffering ever described as God's discipline in scripture?
Do all three religions agree that suffering has a purpose?
Judaism
But he did not put to death the children of the assassins, in accordance with what is written in the Book of the Teaching of Moses, where GOD commanded, “Parents shall not be put to death for children, nor children be put to death for parents; they shall be put to death only for their own crime.” 2 Kings 14:6
Jewish Scripture affirms that children are not to be punished for the wrongdoing of their parents, grounding communal justice in individual responsibility 2 Chronicles 25:42 Kings 14:6. These legal statements show a commitment to shielding children from vicarious penalty, even amid the harsh realities of violence and crime 2 Chronicles 25:42 Kings 14:6. The wisdom dialogue in Job includes a voice that links children’s suffering to their own sin, presenting a stark retributive claim inside a debated conversation about suffering Job 8:4. These passages collectively highlight justice and moral accountability while acknowledging the problem of innocent pain remains textually unresolved here 2 Chronicles 25:42 Kings 14:6Job 8:4.
Christianity
But Jesus said, Suffer little children, and forbid them not, to come unto me: for of such is the kingdom of heaven. Matthew 19:14
In the Gospels, Jesus welcomes children and declares that the kingdom belongs to such as them, foregrounding their dignity and privileged place before God Matthew 19:14Luke 18:16Mark 10:14. These sayings do not explain the mechanics of suffering, but they center God’s care and honor toward children as a theological baseline amid suffering Matthew 19:14Luke 18:16Mark 10:14.
Islam
And do not kill your children for fear of poverty. We provide for them and for you. Indeed, their killing is ever a great sin. Quran 17:31
The Qur’an prohibits killing children and reassures that God provides for them and their families, making child-harm a grave sin and rooting care in divine providence Quran 17:31Quran 17:31. Another verse observes that some idolaters came to see child-killing as acceptable and states that, had God willed otherwise, they would not have done so, acknowledging the tension between divine will and human wrongdoing Quran 6:137. These teachings condemn direct harm and frame suffering within God’s provision and permission, not approval, of evil acts Quran 17:31Quran 17:31Quran 6:137.
Where they agree
All three sets of texts oppose harming children and elevate their protection or value: Jesus explicitly welcomes children to himself and links them to God’s reign Matthew 19:14Luke 18:16Mark 10:14; the Torah forbids executing children for a parent’s crime, guarding them from vicarious punishment 2 Chronicles 25:42 Kings 14:6; and the Qur’an forbids killing children and promises divine provision for them Quran 17:31Quran 17:31. Each tradition, in these passages, grounds concern for children in God’s authority and character rather than in mere social custom Matthew 19:14Luke 18:16Mark 10:142 Chronicles 25:42 Kings 14:6Quran 17:31Quran 17:31.
Where they disagree
| Theme | Judaism | Christianity | Islam |
|---|---|---|---|
| Immediate focus of texts here | Legal justice: no vicarious punishment of children 2 Chronicles 25:42 Kings 14:6. | Positive valuation: children welcomed and associated with God’s kingdom Matthew 19:14Luke 18:16Mark 10:14. | Prohibition and providence: child-killing banned; God provides Quran 17:31Quran 17:31. |
| Account of why suffering occurs | A retributive claim appears in Job 8:4 within a dialogue on suffering Job 8:4. | No direct theodicy stated in these verses; emphasis is on children’s place before God Matthew 19:14Luke 18:16Mark 10:14. | Human evil persists within God’s permitting will per 6:137, without approval of the act Quran 6:137. |
Key takeaways
- Jesus’ welcome of children affirms their dignity and place in God’s kingdom Matthew 19:14Luke 18:16Mark 10:14.
- Torah law rejects vicarious punishment, protecting children from execution for parents’ crimes 2 Chronicles 25:42 Kings 14:6.
- The Qur’an explicitly forbids killing children and promises God’s provision for them Quran 17:31Quran 17:31.
- Job 8:4 voices a retributive claim linking children’s suffering to sin within a debate about suffering Job 8:4.
- Qur’an 6:137 acknowledges human evil under divine permission without approving the act Quran 6:137.
FAQs
Do these scriptures say why children suffer?
Do any texts link children’s suffering to sin?
How do these passages address human responsibility?
Do these texts address divine will and evil acts?
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