Why Does God Allow Children to Suffer? A Comparative Religious View

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TL;DR: All three traditions wrestle with child suffering as part of the broader problem of evil (theodicy). Christianity points to divine discipline, the fallen world, and the special place of children in God's kingdom Hebrews 12:7Mark 10:14. Judaism grapples with the silence of God amid innocent suffering, drawing on the Book of Job and lament psalms. Islam frames suffering as a divine test and mercy, with children who die considered guaranteed entry to paradise. Significant disagreement exists over whether suffering is punitive, pedagogical, or simply mysterious.

Judaism

It is not in our power to explain the prosperity of the wicked or the suffering of the righteous. (Pirkei Avot 4:15)

Judaism has never offered a single, tidy answer to why innocent children suffer — and its greatest thinkers have insisted that intellectual honesty demands we resist easy answers. The Hebrew term for this problem is tzaddik ve-ra lo (the righteous who suffer), and it runs through the Tanakh from Genesis to the Psalms.

The Book of Job is the tradition's most sustained engagement with innocent suffering. Job's children are killed at the outset, and the entire drama turns on whether God owes an explanation. The rabbis of the Talmudic period (c. 200–500 CE) debated whether suffering is always disciplinary (yissurin shel ahavah, 'afflictions of love') or whether some suffering is simply beyond human comprehension. Rabbi Yannai, quoted in the Babylonian Talmud (Berakhot 7a), admitted: 'It is not in our power to explain the prosperity of the wicked or the suffering of the righteous.'

Medieval philosopher Maimonides (1138–1204) argued in Guide for the Perplexed (III:12) that most human suffering stems from human choices and the material nature of the world, not divine punishment — a view that partially shields children from any notion of deserved suffering. By contrast, Nachmanides (1194–1270) leaned more heavily on the idea that souls carry spiritual debts across lifetimes, though this kabbalistic view remains contested.

After the Holocaust, theologians like Eliezer Berkovits and Emil Fackenheim forced a reckoning: how could the murder of 1.5 million Jewish children be reconciled with a providential God? Berkovits' concept of hester panim ('the hiding of God's face') — drawn from Deuteronomy 31:17 — suggests God temporarily withdraws to preserve human freedom, even at catastrophic cost. This is not a comfortable answer, and Judaism largely resists pretending it is.

Christianity

But Jesus said, Suffer little children, and forbid them not, to come unto me: for of such is the kingdom of heaven. (Matthew 19:14)

Christian theology approaches child suffering through several overlapping frameworks: the fallen world, divine discipline, eschatological hope, and the mystery of providence. None of these fully 'solves' the problem, and honest theologians from Augustine to C.S. Lewis have said so.

First, the fallen-world argument: most mainstream Christian theology holds that suffering entered creation through human sin (Genesis 3), meaning children suffer not because God wills it directly but because they are born into a broken world. Paul's language in Romans 8 about 'the whole creation groaning' supports this reading.

Second, the disciplinary argument. The letter to the Hebrews offers a striking analogy: 'If ye endure chastening, God dealeth with you as with sons; for what son is he whom the father chasteneth not?' Hebrews 12:7 This frames suffering as potentially formative rather than punitive — though theologians like Jürgen Moltmann (b. 1926) have warned strongly against applying this to child suffering in ways that excuse injustice or abuse.

Third, and perhaps most pastorally significant, Jesus himself placed children at the center of the kingdom. In all three Synoptic Gospels he rebuked his disciples for keeping children away: 'Suffer the little children to come unto me, and forbid them not: for of such is the kingdom of God.' Mark 10:14Luke 18:16 This suggests children hold a privileged spiritual status, not a punished one.

Contemporary theologians like Alvin Plantinga (b. 1932) use the 'free will defense' to argue God permits suffering to preserve genuine human freedom, while John Hick (1922–2012) proposed 'soul-making theodicy' — the idea that a world without suffering couldn't produce moral depth. Critics, including Dostoevsky's Ivan Karamazov (a fictional but theologically serious voice), argue no eschatological reward justifies a single child's tear. Christianity holds the tension without fully resolving it.

Islam

And We will surely test you with something of fear and hunger and a loss of wealth and lives and fruits, but give good tidings to the patient. (Quran 2:155)

Islamic theology addresses child suffering primarily through the doctrines of qadar (divine decree), ibtila (divine testing), and divine mercy. The Quran repeatedly affirms that God does not wrong anyone — 'wa la yazlimu rabbuka ahadan' (Surah 18:49) — which means suffering, including that of children, must be understood within a framework of ultimate divine justice even when the immediate cause is opaque to humans.

On the specific fate of children who die young, there is near-consensus among classical scholars: children who die before the age of moral accountability (bulugh) go directly to paradise. Ibn al-Qayyim (1292–1350) devoted considerable attention to this in Ahkam Ahl al-Dhimma and related works, arguing the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) confirmed in hadith (Sahih Muslim) that children of believers — and according to some scholars, all children — are in paradise.

The broader question of why God permits suffering at all is addressed through the concept of ibtila: trials are a sign of God's love and a means of spiritual elevation. The Prophet is reported to have said: 'The greatest reward comes with the greatest trial. When Allah loves a people He tests them.' (Sunan Ibn Majah, graded hasan). This doesn't mean God causes child abuse or disease with indifference; Islamic ethics strongly obligates humans to relieve suffering wherever possible — the suffering is permitted, not celebrated.

Scholar and philosopher Ibn Rushd (Averroes, 1126–1198) and later Ash'arite theologians argued that God's wisdom (hikma) may include purposes humans cannot perceive. The Mu'tazilite school, by contrast, insisted God must have a rationally discernible reason for every act — a minority position today but historically significant. Contemporary scholar Hamza Yusuf (b. 1958) has emphasized that Islam asks believers to hold grief and trust simultaneously, without demanding God justify himself to human reason.

Where they agree

All three traditions share several core commitments on this painful question:

  • God is not indifferent. None of the three traditions teaches that child suffering is meaningless or that God is unmoved by it. All three affirm divine compassion as a foundational attribute.
  • Human responsibility matters. Judaism, Christianity, and Islam all insist that humans bear moral responsibility to alleviate suffering — the question of why God permits it doesn't remove the human obligation to fight it.
  • Honest lament is legitimate. All three traditions contain robust traditions of crying out to God in anguish — the Psalms, Jesus's cry of dereliction (Mark 15:34), and the Quranic figure of Ayyub (Job) all model honest grief before God.
  • Ultimate justice is deferred. Each tradition places final resolution beyond this life — in resurrection, the World to Come, or the Day of Judgment — meaning present suffering is not the final word Hebrews 12:7Mark 10:14.

Where they disagree

IssueJudaismChristianityIslam
Primary explanation for child sufferingMystery; human freedom; hester panim (God's hidden face)Fallen world; sin's consequences; possible disciplinary purpose Hebrews 12:7Divine test (ibtila); part of qadar (decree)
Fate of children who die youngGenerally considered innocent; Olam Ha-Ba (World to Come) assumed, but details debatedDebated — some traditions (e.g., Calvinist) historically posited infant damnation; most modern traditions affirm salvation Mark 10:14Near-consensus: all children go to paradise before age of accountability
Role of human sinCollective sin may affect community, but individual child suffering rarely attributed to child's own sinOriginal sin affects all humanity, including children, though not as personal guilt in most traditionsNo original sin doctrine; children are born sinless (fitra)
Willingness to challenge GodHigh — lament and argument with God is a respected tradition (Abraham, Job, Jeremiah)Present but more constrained — Jesus models lament but also submissionLament is permitted; direct argument with God less emphasized; submission (islam) is central

Key takeaways

  • All three Abrahamic traditions affirm God's compassion but none offers a fully satisfying rational explanation for why children specifically suffer.
  • Christianity's Synoptic Gospels place children at the heart of the kingdom of God, suggesting their suffering is not a sign of divine rejection Mark 10:14.
  • Islam holds near-consensus that children who die before moral accountability enter paradise, grounded in the doctrine of sinless fitra.
  • Judaism is uniquely willing to frame the unanswered question itself as theologically honest — lament and argument with God are respected traditions, not failures of faith.
  • Hebrews 12:7 frames suffering as potentially disciplinary, but modern theologians widely caution against applying this to child suffering in ways that excuse human injustice Hebrews 12:7.

FAQs

Does the Bible say children have a special place with God despite suffering?
Yes — Jesus explicitly rebuked those who kept children from him, saying 'of such is the kingdom of God' Mark 10:14. This appears in Matthew, Mark, and Luke Matthew 19:14Luke 18:16, suggesting children hold a privileged spiritual status. Christian theologians like Karl Barth argued this means children are especially close to divine grace, not especially subject to divine punishment.
Does Judaism have an answer to why innocent children suffer?
Judaism resists a single answer. The Talmud acknowledges the problem is beyond human resolution (Pirkei Avot 4:15). Post-Holocaust theologians like Eliezer Berkovits invoked hester panim — God's hidden face — from Deuteronomy 31:17. Maimonides attributed most suffering to the material world and human choices rather than divine punishment, partially shielding children from any notion of deserved suffering.
What happens in Islam to children who die young?
Classical Islamic scholarship holds near-consensus that children who die before reaching the age of moral accountability go directly to paradise. Ibn al-Qayyim (1292–1350) documented this extensively, citing hadith from Sahih Muslim. The doctrine of fitra — that all children are born in a pure, sinless state — underpins this view, since there is no concept of original sin in Islam.
Is child suffering ever described as God's discipline in scripture?
Hebrews 12:7 does frame suffering in disciplinary terms: 'If ye endure chastening, God dealeth with you as with sons; for what son is he whom the father chasteneth not?' Hebrews 12:7. However, most contemporary theologians — including Jürgen Moltmann — caution strongly against applying this framework to child suffering specifically, warning it can be used to excuse abuse or injustice.
Do all three religions agree that suffering has a purpose?
Broadly yes, but with important nuances. Christianity and Islam tend to affirm suffering can be purposeful — disciplinary Hebrews 12:7 or as divine testing. Judaism is more willing to say some suffering is simply inexplicable and that demanding a reason can itself be a form of theological dishonesty. All three, however, agree that human beings are obligated to relieve suffering regardless of its ultimate metaphysical cause.

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